High-maintenance bride uninvites friend of 15 years, who already paid for bachelorette party

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• Because there are all these little random events, it can make for an entire year or two where most conversations are focused on one person's wedding. The friendship becomes lopsided. The bride or groom might get demanding, since they're a bit on edge with all this planning. And that's how you wind up with cases like this one, where a friendship of 15 years hangs in the balance. 

• I was uninvited from a wedding one week prior despite planning her bachelorette, told bride to cover my portion of the bachelorette cost

  
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  Bridal party walk along the beach during bachelorette party.

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  Tired looking bachelorette party guests take photos with balloons.

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  6 women in a bachelorette party hold heart-shaped balloons while enjoying a beach walk.

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• Calling a friend's illness "uncertainty around her wedding" is just 1000% insane

  
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  This is what I mean about the friendships becoming lopsided: there's just no way that any normal friendship would function this way. Like, even if your bestie had to miss your birthday or something, being sick is a valid excuse, right? You simply cannot show up when you're sniffling and sneezing. It makes no sense to get upset about something you can't control like that. And the bride is making this all about herself, as if her friend is purposefully sabotaging the big day. 

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  Ugh, this is just awful, let's hope this person finds a friend who appreciates them more than this! 

• This commenter said it best: 

  Dittoheadforever

  You're NTA but you're never getting your money back from your high maintenance, impossible to please ex-friend.

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